
Many of us treat September as a time of new beginnings. We return to our regular routines and we set goals for ourselves. We get back on track! To set the most effective goals we need to be certain that our goals are aligned with honouring our true values. Too often we are trying to please others and to live up to their values system.
To successfully live a fulfilled and enriched life we need to tap into our true values. The more we feel our true values as part of our internal being, the more we can make choices based on those core values. Our values serve as guideposts on our life journey. They give us clarity. Decisions, from small to challenging, become clearer when we ask ourselves value based questions:
"Will this decision honour my values? What values will I be honouring by
choosing A or B?"
In my coaching practice, we begin with gaining a clear understanding of your values. I help people to tap into their true values using a variety of techniques. Some of these include: visualization of your future self, your dreams for the future, assessing what you are unwilling to say 'no' to and isolating what is really important to YOU and not what you feel is expected of you.
The key here is to take the time to really understand your values including how you personally define and express them. By doing this you will enjoy a lifetime of benefit!